Showing posts with label overwhelm. Show all posts
Showing posts with label overwhelm. Show all posts
Wednesday, 18 May 2011
Remember that Crocheted Waistcoat...?
it's finished.
In fact, truth be told it was finished a good few weeks ago, but I'd not got around to putting the ties on! It has been languishing on my chair in crochet corner waiting patiently 'til now.
What do you think?
As it's been such an age since I started this waistcoat project, I cannot remember how much I spent on wool, except to say it was less than the one for sale that originally inspired me to make this one! I used Rowan Handknit Cotton for it, but if I were to make another one I think I'd pick a slightly lighter yarn. Cotton is quite sturdy, and I think a more floaty kind of wool would look quite good too.
But here's the thing - the fact is, I probably won't be able to make another. I tried to write a pattern, and at first it looked as if it were going swimmingly - and I was so excited as I reallly thought I could share it with you. Then it got tricky...and oh my, tricky like you wouldn't believe. I spent a while frogging and re-doing bits over and over until they looked right. Even now, there are parts of it that to my eye look ever so happily wonky and not exactly matching...but hey, it was fun to do.
So, (and I dread you reading this bit) I am very, very (truly) sorry...but I do not have a pattern to share with you after all. Writing all the complicated bits down and reading through it made absolutely no sense to me at all afterwards, and even though I tried writing it out three times, it wasn't convincing me that it was easy enough for folks to understand, and to publish on a blog to share with a squillion people.
Will you forgive me?
I have to confess that I've had rather a hiatus from crochet of late. I've been much to busy with other projects and come 8 o'clock I've been too pooped to do much else apart from flop.
And then I read a post over at Coco Rose Diaries about a new magazine, with some rather fabulous crocheted apple covers featured. You can have a peek into this new magazine here too, it looks really good. Vanessa's post and this magazine combined got me itching to get hooking again.
I think it was a much needed jolt to remind me to get the mix of business and pleasure balanced evenly. Despite my attempts at balancing life (as described in my last post), I realised that I was actually still feeling pretty frazzled and worn out which is a major kick up the butt for me to reaaaalllly slow down. I realised that peaceful creative pursuits must be allowed as well as all this studying, drawing and writing that I'm doing, so I've started to do my yoga again (just gentle bursts of 15-30 minutes each evening) and plan some crochet time too; for me this is such a relaxing thing to do and like reading, it helps me to centre and unwind after a mad day! My other stuff has now been re-scheduled so that my self imposed (rather tight) deadlines have now been gloriously extended!! Hurrah, sighs of relief and more time for the fun stuff. Why didn't I just do that in the first place???!!
I want to say Thank You to everyone who left comments on my last post too - it was great to read all your ideas on dealing with overwhelm. It was also interesting to see how many of us go through the same processes, thank you so much for sharing.
Before I scoot off, I just want to tell you that I am in the process of creating some new card collections for my website, which I'm really excited about. If you want the heads up on these (that is, an exclusive preview with a nice discount) then all you have to do is sign up for my email newsletter which you can do here! Just scroll down the page, fill in the form and that's it!!
Sending you love for a happy week,
Julia x
Tuesday, 10 May 2011
Doing Too Much and How To Do Less
'I believe I can' - affirmation card
Hello my friends,
I have the most amazing amount of stuff I want to achieve at the moment! I've taken on two creative business courses (which I'm doing and loving), am dreaming and planning new art work not to mention all the normal stuff that comes with family life such as the supermarket shop, the school run, cooking, keeping the house clean etc; you know the kind of things I'm talking about!
When life gets full up with things to achieve, I sometimes find myself looking for a fast forward button - I feel so much excitement about my projects and ideas, that I just cannot wait to get them all done and out there! When I feel this happening, I realise I need to slow down and find my rythmn again. It's just as easy to lose my momentum on something if I go at it head down and full speed, as when I take an age beginning a new project, and the ideas percolate for too long and lose their sparkle.
My experience has been this:
Life becomes jumbled and untidy
I tend to eat rubbishy foods (like cookies, chocolate, heaps of toast and marmalade and kettle chips)
I am late going to bed and spend way too much time on my computer.
I rush my 'relaxing' bath and race through my day with each thought chasing the tail of the last one.
I get crabby and irritable
I feel overwhelmed
Not too much gets achieved when I'm like that because there is no rythmn. It's jerky, it's messy, and it's painful because it leads to feelings of frustration and failure. When I expect too much too soon, I usually always feel the pain of these feelings and emotions coming up and I know that I need to move at a more gentle pace, and make time to listen to what I (my body) really needs. Oh, and I need a plan too.
A favourite waterside walk to relax
Getting outside is enormously helpful for me (as in calming and relaxing), and having a diary or planner for my deadlines is too. Once I have stuff written down and I can physically see the dates I'm needing to get stuff done by, the urge to rush around like a wild chicken disappears. I know I can realistically achieve stuff when I've planned for it and that naturally creates breathing space for the rest of life to resume it's regular (and happier) pace again. I begin to cook healthy food, go to bed at a reasonable hour, and I can hold a conversation without frowning and snapping. I feel more balanced when I remove the panic and urgency from my mind.
How do you deal with overwhelm, and what do you find works best for you when you're bogged down with busyness? Please share your thoughts in the comments thread, I'll be popping in randomly to join in the conversation!
Thanks for reading, big love to you
Julia x
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'The Evening Stroll'
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